Impress an Animal-Loving Girl
There are girls who love their pets. They cuddle occasionally, they feed them, they walk them, they play with them every now and then, and they post photos of them on Facebook. And then there are girls who loooove their pets. They love their pets so much that they dedicate a whole part of their lives for their little furry friend (or scaly or stingy or whatever pet they choose to have). They live with them, they talk a lot about them, and they will expect their future lovers to love their future partners to love their pets, or at least love that person pets and all.
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This won’t be too difficult if you yourself are a great fan of animals. It would actually work to your advantage if you can have a date out of walking your pets together, going to the doggy park, having pet play dates, comparing reptiles, or choosing the right show-standard fish together.
But what if you’re not a pet lover?
How do you impress a girl who is so dedicated to her pet when you don’t exactly fancy these four-legged companions? Here are some tips:
- Be honest about it. Don’t pretend to like her pets, or animals in general, while in your heart of hearts all you want to do is strangle it or throw it in a dumpster. Be honest about not being a fan of pets right from the very beginning, but don’t seem disgusted by the thought of it. How you say it will greatly affect how she will react to you. Say it in a way that will make her appreciate your honesty rather than notice your lack of compatibility in those areas. It would be to your advantage if you also explain to her why the un-fondness.
- Be open to opportunities that will have you acquainted with her pets. You don’t really have to love it love it. If she’s as nice and as good as you think she is, she will appreciate the effort you put into getting to know her life and her love for her favorite company. Let her know of any allergies beforehand, but don’t make up one! This will be a fast way to make a girl like you.
- Watch her spend time with her pets. Sometimes, we just don’t like things or people because we just don’t know how to. So by all means, take the time to watch your special lady spend time with her animal friend. It would do you a lot of good to look at her pet (and all pets in general) the same way she does.
- Show her your own interests. Exchanging hobbies and interests is one of the best ways to get to know a person. Spend a date introducing her to your own world, to make her see and understand that you may not be too interested in what she is interested in, but that you have equally interesting hobbies as well.
You don’t have to pretend to love her pets; show her what you love and accept her pet openly – that would mean a lot to her more than you can imagine.
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